Prostitution

Globally, prostitution and other commercial sex activities such as stripping, lap dancing, sex tourism, etc. disproportionately involve men using women and (mostly girl) children for sexual use or titillation. Despite the rhetoric from advocates, these activities are not a level playing field. Overwhelmingly, they:

  • exist to sexually privilege men

  • have their roots in gender inequality

  • reinforce attitudes and beliefs around male sexual entitlement and female sexual servitude

  • are predicated on unequal power and economic structures, where men want sex or sexual titillation and have the means to pay for it, and women/children want money or ‘in kind’ payment

  • reduce women and children to their orifices, available to rent by men

  • corrode men’s connection to themselves and to others

  • exploit, denigrate and harm women and children.

If there were no demand by men, there would be no supply of women and children. Challenging male demand is critical to effective reduction of prostitution and other commercial sex activities.

Putting it bluntly...

 Prostitution reduces women and girls to three orifices. 
It treats women and children as public toilets.
It can never be made respectful.

 
 

FAQs

Stop Demand is in favour of The Nordic Model (also known as the Equality Model) which sees the buyer criminalised for buying sex, rather than criminalising the seller.

 
 

 

Reducing Demand

Men who buy sex or sexual titillation report that their sex buying behaviour is influenced by factors such as effort, convenience, having the money, risk of prosecution, and a belief that is a harmless activity.

Most sex buyers are not that committed, observes international human trafficking expert Brian Iselin.

The key to taking buyers out of the sex markets is to make the casual buyer think before acting; to interrupt the transaction. How?

  1. Increase the effort needed to buy

  2. Increase the inconvenience for buying

  3. Push up price

  4. Normalise the illegality

  5. Provide information

Submission on Prostitution to UN Women 2024

Submission on Prostitution to UN Women 2016

 
It is time to adopt a new code on what it means to be a man. Being a man does not mean buying sex with women or children. We can still run a hundred miles, watch the footy, continue to barbecue, even still not take too seriously the clothes we buy. We are not talking about making men less masculine, but deciding it is both a strength and a virtue to not prey on and abuse others.
— Brian Iselin, international human trafficking expert
 
Men should feel guilty when they buy women. Guilt can be healthy. Buying women is wrong not because of a society’s repressive moral code or its effects on an individual’s psychological process. It is wrong because it creates a world in which people get hurt. And the people who get hurt the most are women and children, the people with the least amount of power.
— Robert Jensen, professor of journalism and author

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